Saturday, December 25, 2010

Get a hold to this! Nonsence!

 I been a friend to this person for about three years now. But who only has been an acquaintance to me. I realized this person is no good.Sly smiles,remarks that she never gets away with,and usually I let it go after a while.  Before I didn't even notice those other petty things she use to do .Such as waliking into my kitchen without asking ,shouting her personal promblems on my porch and other disrespect to my house. I just figured because she didn't have class or manners. Well I saw her for who she is when I bought w/d and made some decorated touch ups to my house. When I told her that I made those flowers paintings she frown. Tried giving me some criticism and comments where I should've hung them. I set her straight .Mean and forceful. Well that's me! She got upset. that same day she asked me for a loan. A week later, another friend of ours told me that she compalin that I hurtful & should've let it pass being that she was a friend. Also was upset that I refuse to loan her money. I'm not going to loan people money who's petty and can't loan back! That's so stupid! It doesn't need a response. Funny, while the friend of ours was telling me this  a lot of info came out. He has problems with her too!  Neither of us knew, except  the borrowing money thing,what a liar and waton person she is. I don't talk about people behind their back and neither do he, but some times things has to be discuss. I was shock of how awful she has been
 Since Cussing and fighting is not appropiate for kids eyes! & for addults! Being a mom I handle this in a mature way. Most of time this is not satisfying for me because I like to let off steam to whom upset me. Anyway ,she called and ask me why I don't call anymore? Do I hate her? I said yeah I hate your guts and I can't stand you!. Can you believe it? She laugh and thought I didn't meant it. Well, I do throw cruel remarks to her when she  gets on my nerves. Hey! Let her dwell.
Anyway I cut contact with her. Don't let her try to visit amongst other friends(yeah that trick!).Out of sight out of mind.
I know I post about it but I didn't let it get on my nerves. That will be making me feel worse and nothing comes from it.

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