http://bluedolly25.wordpress.com this site I been having fun with. I posted a lot of recipes and other fun that I have. Well one of my co-workers had asks me to post his 'Okra butter' recipe. Are you nuts? Who 's gonna eat that. Since, I hurted his feelings I post a bit about it here. He stew the okra then mixed with some kid of butter. Spread and eat. Yuck! I have weird co-workers man.

Anyway, I cook some lasagna. Horrible. I accidentally bought part-skim Monterrey jack instead of mozzarella cheese. The store should've made the labels with two different colors instead of two shades of green. Oh the smell was horrible. Taste o.k.. Aww! No it didn't! This sucks. I had a craving for it too.!

Get a hold to this! Nonsence!

 I been a friend to this person for about three years now. But who only has been an acquaintance to me. I realized this person is no good.Sly smiles,remarks that she never gets away with,and usually I let it go after a while.  Before I didn't even notice those other petty things she use to do .Such as waliking into my kitchen without asking ,shouting her personal promblems on my porch and other disrespect to my house. I just figured because she didn't have class or manners. Well I saw her for who she is when I bought w/d and made some decorated touch ups to my house. When I told her that I made those flowers paintings she frown. Tried giving me some criticism and comments where I should've hung them. I set her straight .Mean and forceful. Well that's me! She got upset. that same day she asked me for a loan. A week later, another friend of ours told me that she compalin that I hurtful & should've let it pass being that she was a friend. Also was upset that I refuse to loan her money. I'm not going to loan people money who's petty and can't loan back! That's so stupid! It doesn't need a response. Funny, while the friend of ours was telling me this  a lot of info came out. He has problems with her too!  Neither of us knew, except  the borrowing money thing,what a liar and waton person she is. I don't talk about people behind their back and neither do he, but some times things has to be discuss. I was shock of how awful she has been
 Since Cussing and fighting is not appropiate for kids eyes! & for addults! Being a mom I handle this in a mature way. Most of time this is not satisfying for me because I like to let off steam to whom upset me. Anyway ,she called and ask me why I don't call anymore? Do I hate her? I said yeah I hate your guts and I can't stand you!. Can you believe it? She laugh and thought I didn't meant it. Well, I do throw cruel remarks to her when she  gets on my nerves. Hey! Let her dwell.
Anyway I cut contact with her. Don't let her try to visit amongst other friends(yeah that trick!).Out of sight out of mind.

I know I post about it but I didn't let it get on my nerves. That will be making me feel worse and nothing comes from it.

A crafted painting

 I visited the Hobby Lobby. They have lots if craft items to have fun with. I saw these big blue flowers and gray ones. Instantly an idea came ti mind. I bought a huge picture frame and some color pastels. When I got home I took the  strong canvas panel and painted a scenery then I place the flowers on each side. I made it look 3D . Then into the frame. Now it's hang on my wall. Beautiful. I decided to tell my friends who loves crafts and stuff. I was with her when I visited the Hobby Lobby. She made a couple mini pictures for her nieces. This was so affordable and so much fun! Hope you give it a try.

hearty breakfast!

I usual don't eat breakfast, just lunch and dinner. This isn't a good habit, especially when work has long mornings and sometimes have to skip lunch. So I made a dish that easy to make and fill your belly through the morning. Fresh fruit in oatmeal. I threw some grapes and strawberry in a bowl of warm oatmeal. I was full till lunch. Or I just spread strawberry cream cheese onto an English muffin. Rices cakes if you're on a particular diet.bluedolly25.wordpress.com here is where you can also find more recipes of mine.

delicious

I made a lasagna last night. I used the basics; noodles,ricotta and mozzarella cheese and meat sauce. Then I added green pepper saute with onions and garlic. I also added steam mushrooms and drained black olives.
Meat; I decided to mold mini meatballs stuffed with parsley and a little black pepper.
It was so delicious. My kids and friends stuffed their faces and afterwards they were  too full for dessert!!!

Dessert
I made my rose cheesecake . My creation!!  A strawberry cheesecake with real strawberry on top, slice lime with two kinds of nuts, which I'm not telling. Yeah stawberry and lime makes a great combination!!

how to unburden

 One thing I dislike is stupid friends. The ones that makes stupid decisions on thee most important things in their lives. I breaking off a friendship with two friends. Neither knows each other. One: only a friend when to keep me as a friend. Otherwise, jealous, tries to top me in front of others and gets snotty. Then I get mad. Put one in check. After a while, the person will try to do it again. I don't repeat cycles unless I like them.  The other has no sence of humor. Has the arrogance to push voice to topic that doesn't require one opinion. Get real!! But the worst  is the loyality. Mines is always honest, faithful and with true loyality. What I received from this one was "now since I'm your friend I should be able to walk over you" . No Way!!!! Became friends with a foe or shall I say wanna be foe, then defend the person to me for no apparent reason. With more dissappointments than appreciation, bad times than joy and more fickle than personification this person believes this friendship is worth keeping. I DON'T!!  


Recently, I been short and a bit cruel towards them. Respectfully kept them at a distances. To me it's not fair to social with a person when you already know  you dislike them . No one is made for adjusting to others personal standards. I just save my good nature for the right friend and people I enjoy meeting.

Sometimes I step back and look at a situation or things from an objective view. Be honest .Admit whats really important .For one joy. Always have a wholesome outlook. Then sometimes the answer is not doing anything but putting insight to the right direction. What you think? .

need advice

Times are tough. It not easy to find peace of mind when there bills are getting higher,  income is lowered and everything is more expensive in stores. My advice, enjoy yourself , create your own peace of mind . Hobbies like reading, sewing and if you don't want to look at things listen to relaxing music